Category: Kink/BDSM

  1. Nipple clamps

    Nipple Play

    09/20/2013 | Scarlett Ryan

    I know a lot of women profess to get little out of nipple play. We all have differing degrees of sensitivity in this area, so for some women this indeed may be true, but I suspect in many cases the problem in fact lies with insensitive male techniques such as the one I like to […]


  2. Kinky Sex eBook

    Preview “Kinky Sex: A BDSM Primer”

    08/28/2013 | Peaches

    Soon after Labor Day we’ll be launching a sexy new eBook, Kinky Sex: A BDSM Primer. Here’s an excerpt! Excerpt from “Becoming a Domme” by Fay Luce I afforded most of my dinners in graduate school from money made by whipping businessmen. Sometimes the businessmen bought me dinner and sometimes they left cash on the […]


  3. Step7_BitGag

    Bondage Basics: Rope Bit Gag

    08/21/2013 | Whitney Fish

    Here’s another beginner’s bondage technique. That’s right, it’s not just for tying you or your lover up–you can also make gags and other fun toys out of it! Before you try this one out, make sure you and your partner have agreed on a safe-signal. This gag won’t prevent noise from being made, but it […]


  4. How to tie a "cat's paw" knot

    Rope Basics: “Cat’s Paw” Knot Tutorial

    08/05/2013 | Whitney Fish

    Interested in trying out a little rope bondage? Want to tie someone up or be tied up but don’t know how to start? Have no fear: here is the first installment of our instructional guide to knots and ropework. Before you begin, make sure you read Anna Sky’s article on Five Ways to Have Safer […]


  5. Consent in Kink

    Consensual Non-Consent

    07/16/2013 | Anna Sky

    Imagine the scene–I am tied up and vulnerable, unable to defend myself. Stephen is standing there with a riding crop, bringing it down on my naked bottom over and over, watching the color change to a bright, angry red. I am begging him to stop, tears rolling down my face. He tells him that it’s […]


  6. Negotation and Consent in Kinky Sex

    Negotiation and Consent in Kinky Sex

    07/03/2013 | Stella Harris

    In my experience, one of the biggest differences between the kink and vanilla worlds are the different approaches to negotiation and consent. In a way, whether or not something is kinky can come down to what you label it. Is having your hair pulled kinky or is it just rough sex? Or maybe you don’t […]


  7. self-esteem through BDSM

    Spanx vs. Spanking

    06/17/2013 | Stella Harris

    I worked in an office from the ages of 24-30. During that time I finally developed a personal style that made me happy. I’d never liked the way dress pants sat on me so I fell into wearing dresses or pencil skirts and high heels. I cultivated an (office appropriate) naughty secretary look and it […]


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    My Journey Into BDSM

    05/30/2013 | Anna Sky

    You may see Stephen and me at a dinner party, laughing and joking along with everyone else. I’m the loud one, have probably had more to drink, leaning in to be part of it all. He sits more quietly, drinking, observing, only joining in when he has something to say. You’ll see him glancing at […]


  9. BDSM advice

    50 Shades of Play: Make a BDSM Wish List

    05/13/2013 | Euphoria Welty

    The runaway blockbusters of the last few years have put a spotlight on power play in the bedroom. Which, in and of itself, is fantastic. It’s a fantasy realm with so many possibilities. But all forms of power playing, from a giggling adventure with fur handcuffs and an ostrich feather, to the disciplined levels of […]


  10. Erotica by Olivia London

    What She Owed Him, Part Two
    Erotica

    03/27/2013 | Olivia London

    If you missed it, here’s the link to Part One of this free erotica series. “Sure, handsome. There’s something I’ve been meaning to talk to you about anyway, and we need to have a rational conversation about this sans alcohol.” She went rummaging around for a T-shirt and sweats–her favorite time for a talk clothes–when […]


  11. safe kinky sex

    Five Ways to Have Safer Kinky Sex

    03/26/2013 | Anna Sky

    I love a good bit of kinky sex in my life, whether it’s an over-the-knee spanking, being tied to the bed and teased, or whatever else Stephen has in mind for me. We’ve been together a long time, but even now we follow these guidelines to make sure what we’re doing is safe and we […]