Articles Tagged "sex advice"

  1. sex toys

    Using Sex Toys with Your Partner

    10/04/2013 | Scarlett Ryan

    Sex toys for girls are de rigeur. Ever since Carrie from Sex and the City extolled the virtues of the Rampant Rabbit every modern girl is pretty much expected to own a vibrator. And though sex toys for straight guys are increasing in popularity, many men still feel slightly uncomfortable about the idea. Which seems […]


  2. Does the size of his cock matter?

    Does His Size Matter?

    09/27/2013 | Scarlett Ryan

    Does it? As much as we try to reassure our men it doesn’t, I’m still a bit unsure about this one. Having slept with some rather well-endowed male performers, there’s no doubt that a big willy can be a big turn on, if only because of the idea of it. In practical terms, there’s nothing […]


  3. Kinky Sex: A BDSM Primer

    New Book! Kinky Sex: A BDSM Primer

    09/13/2013 | Peaches

    UPDATE: This is now available in paperback as well as eBook format from Amazon. We hope this format makes it easier to learn-as-you-go with your partner (wink, wink). We’re so excited to announce the launch of our first-ever eBook! Kinky Sex: A BDSM Primer contains sixteen tutorials and essays on bondage, role play, the kink […]


  4. G-spot and female ejaculation

    Female Ejaculation–Is it Real, and How to Achieve It

    08/02/2013 | Scarlett Ryan

    Here comes the science . . . in 1950 Dr Grafenberg “discovered” the G- (Grafenberg-) spot. He also “discovered” female ejaculation–large quantities of a clear fluid that gushes out of the urethra in some women when they climax. So it should be a done deal. Yet even though researchers have since confirmed his findings and […]


  5. Make a home porno with your partner

    Make Your Own X-Rated Movie

    07/26/2013 | Scarlett Ryan

    Ever wanted a taste of how it feels to be an amateur porn actress? If you have exhibitionist tendencies, love roleplay or being on camera, then why not have a go at making your own home porn movie with your partner? Watching it back together afterwards can be a huge turn-on for you both, and […]


  6. Nipple clamps

    How to Talk Dirty

    06/21/2013 | Scarlett Ryan

    We hear a lot about how men are primarily turned on by visuals and women by fantasy and tactile stimulation. . . but his ears (and yours) are erogenous zones too. I’m not talking about nibbling or fondling them, though this can be very nice, but talking to each other. I’ve never met a man […]


  7. Anal sex

    Bottom’s Up! (How to Enjoy Anal Sex)

    06/14/2013 | Scarlett Ryan

    My boyfriend turned over this morning, spooned into me and whispered romantically into my ear. . . “Butt sex?” “Excuse me?” “Go on, we haven’t done it for ages.” Afterwards, I got to thinking about the whole subject of anal sex, which is nowhere near as taboo as it used to be, and yet when […]


  8. Find your best sex toy

    Shopping in Toyland

    05/24/2013 | Scarlett Ryan

    After my trusted Rabbit vibrator finally gave up the ghost the other day, I decided it was time to go shopping for a new toy. I was amazed how in just the last few years there’s been an explosion in types and styles of female sex toys. The (young, hot, male) shop attendant in my […]


  9. BDSM advice

    50 Shades of Play: Make a BDSM Wish List

    05/13/2013 | Euphoria Welty

    The runaway blockbusters of the last few years have put a spotlight on power play in the bedroom. Which, in and of itself, is fantastic. It’s a fantasy realm with so many possibilities. But all forms of power playing, from a giggling adventure with fur handcuffs and an ostrich feather, to the disciplined levels of […]


  10. Sex tips and sex advice

    Teach Him How to Touch You

    05/10/2013 | Scarlett Ryan

    One of the biggest complaints I hear from women is that their partner’s method of giving you a hand job leaves a lot to be desired. He’s either not pushing your buttons in the right way, or failing to find them at all. Unfortunately many of us, rather than taking steps to address it, pretend […]


  11. shock-him

    Blow His Mind

    05/08/2013 | Faye With a Knee

    We’ve all been out on the town with our significant others when suddenly our worst nightmare is walking by in four inch heels. . . the gorgeous bombshell. She’s totally his type and you know he’s looking. HE knows he’s looking, but is hoping that you somehow missed the girl and the glances. Most of […]


  12. A guide to men

    Scarlett’s Brief Guide to Blokes

    04/26/2013 | Scarlett Ryan

    As you may have noticed, we’re spending each Friday with Scarlett Ryan, a former adult actress and writer (and yes, she is English). This week she shares her personal viewpoints on various types of lovers. I love a good debate and heartily disagree with her opinion on Jokers, having found a few clownish personalities surprisingly […]


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    A Spot of D.I.Y.

    04/19/2013 | Scarlett Ryan

    Masturbation is good for you. And good for your partner too–he stands a small chance of pushing your buttons if you don’t know where they are yourself. I’m a big believer in getting to know your own body and your own desires. Men have no qualms about this, so neither should we. Female masturbation has […]


  14. Scarlett Ryan

    How to Give a Perfect Blow Job

    04/12/2013 | Scarlett Ryan

    Men love blow jobs. I’m sure that’s no surprise to you, but a lot of men will often actually take a good blowjob over intercourse. They don’t have to do any work, for one thing. And your mouth is warm and wet and feels just as good if not better than your–or his–hand, and for […]


  15. Sex tips from Scarlett Ryan

    Find your Best Angles–Sex Positions to Make You Go Oooh!

    04/05/2013 | Scarlett Ryan

    Having worked in adult films, I’ve picked up a few tips when it comes to sex positions, but the most important has nothing to do with technique or camera angles. Instead the best piece of advice I can give you when it comes to positions is this: forget about what looks good, and concentrate on […]


  16. Scarlett Ryan

    Get to Grips–Give Great Hand Jobs

    03/15/2013 | Scarlett Ryan

    And now, a word from a former adult actress, Scarlett Ryan. . . As a former adult actress I often get asked for sex tips. One of the most common complaints I often hear from men is that most women don’t give great hand jobs. Now you may be thinking, hand-jobs aren’t particularly complicated, and […]